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They describe a season of pulling away from their small group entirely — not out of conflict, but out of shame over struggles they weren't ready to talk about. Rather than letting the silence stand, a few members of the group kept reaching out, gently and without demands.

"They kept showing up for me even after I stopped showing up for them," they say. "That patience is the reason I came back at all."

They remain part of the same community today, now on the other side of that season.